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Be Strong. Be Fearless. Be Wise.

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I am strong because I have been weak.
I am fearless because I have been afraid.
I am wise because I have been foolish.

Can you say those words? Can you make that affirmation or will it make you feel weak, afraid, and foolish in front of others?

There is nothing wrong with looking like a fool or being afraid or appearing weak? Yet, too many people would rather live a mediocre life because they are afraid of walking out on the ice. Not knowing how thick or thin, it is. Are you afraid of looking like a fool when you speak to a crowd but nobody hears? Scared of being perceived as weak because your hopes and dreams are not the same as anyone else? Well, you are not alone, come in from the fear.

Too many times, we don’t do what we believe we should do because of what will the neighbors think.
To put it bluntly; screw what others think or believe.

They are not the dream of dreams and most certainly, they are no prize. Though they might believe they are but we know better. They are just regular everyday people who have their own problems, shame, guilt, and most of all, their own shortcomings. Just like you and I do. They might not show it because they are working at creating a façade that looks pretty but serves no true purpose. Add that to their feeble attempts to try dictating the conversation or manipulating the impressions of others. In the end, what does that get you? Nothing!
I know what it is like to be laughed at. I know what it is to be called a coward. I also know exactly what it is to be called a joke. Whether they want to read it or not or admit it or not, I have been called a coward, a joke, and laughed at by, believe it or not, those who I needed the most.

Does that stop me from needing them? No, it does not, as a matter of fact, I need them now more than ever. However, it does stop me from returning to them like a moth to a flame. Once you can break the cycle of returning to the place where you are burned then can you start to grow, change and become better. Nevertheless, for as long as you wallow in that misery and enjoy being burned you become more and more entrenched in that misery.

Remember, I know you are better than that. You can make that change. Admit your shortcomings and start to work on them. Then and only then can you be better than you were yesterday.

On the positive side, I have been called a hero, a wise man, and have had people laugh with me. it is a great feeling knowing that you are respected for what you are and not for what others want you to be or where they would rather keep you, typically beneath them.

That is, unfortunately, more than others can say about themselves.

Be Strong. Be Fearless. Be Wise. Be Better Than You Were Yesterday!

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Overcome Fear. Become Fearless. Become Limitless. by David Guerra

14141600_1115135628566862_8264494036368684327_nIf I may take a moment of your time. Today, I want to talk about FEAR.

Fear stops so many people in their tracks. Life is not about being afraid. Life is not about stopping. Life is about living, exploring and finding the next great thing that excites and inspires you. That which makes you grow! Life is about adventure. Unfortunately, there is no adventure when you live a fearful life.

How can you grow if you live in fear? How can you take chances if all you do is worry about the unknown? What can make you thrive is also the same thing that makes approach with caution but NEVER fear (survival). To survive you also have to take that step out of your cave.

The ONLY thing fear does is that it makes you less than your potential. Fear stifles your growth. Fear increases your comfort zone. Fear makes you look at others with jealousy, bitterness, and most of all it makes you look at others with contempt.

Fear lowers your standards to a level that anyone that dares to step above that level is not worth your time except for that moment when you desperately hope they come crashing down to below your level. It makes those fearful people cynical.

Cynical? You had better believe they are cynics. Some wallow in it, others feel that the only way to feel comfortable is to be cynical about those that have no fear when it comes to stepping out of their comfort zone.

If you are one of those that would rather curl up under the covers rather than step out and do something positive about your existence but are afraid. Why are you afraid?

Are you afraid that just like the cynicism you have cast on plenty of others, others will be cynical towards you? Is the fear of cynical people stopping you?

Ask yourself, what have the cynics done for you that they are not already doing to you? If they are already talking about and criticizing others in front of you then please sleep well at night knowing they are talking about, criticizing, and being cynical about you to others.

It is who they are. Maybe you like the noise they were making but once you fell into their trap you found yourself a little too deep to get yourself out.

You probably see no way out. There is a way out. You can make it out on your own.

People make ladders, to get themselves on top of or out of something. Build your own ladder and get yourself out from the pit of cynicism and fear.

If you really truly want to get out of the tiger trap known as FEAR (cynicism included) then please know there is one true secret to building a ladder and using that ladder: Take it one step at a time.

You can get yourself up and out. You can overcome your lowered standards. You can overcome cynicism, criticizing others. You can get away from others that live in creating drama by criticizing others (especially the absent) in front of you.

Overcome Fear. Become Fearless. Become Limitless.

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David G. Guerra is a US Army Veteran, Small Business Entrepreneur, and Author (Fiction & Non-Fiction). David served with the US Army Berlin Brigade 110 miles behind the Iron Curtain during the Cold War. David later spent 17 years working for the State of Texas in the Information Technology field while successfully earning his Bachelor and Master degree in Business Administration. Currently working in the private sector has given David the opportunity to write and publish his first two of three books on leadership; “The Walking Leader” and “Great To Follow” and four historical fiction books set in Occupied West Berlin (“Doughboy City”, “Air Bridge Berlin”, “Spandau Guard”, & “Parade Season”) with more of both genres to come.

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Leadership In Motion Pictures #1: “Twelve O’Clock High” by David Guerra

I have been toying with this subject for quite some time and so enough is enough, I introduce you to

“Leadership in Motion Pictures”

The purpose of Leadership in Motion Pictures is simple; to present and show you those unique motion pictures that not only entertain but show leaders in unique situations and how they get themselves out of it.

Twelve O'Clock High with Gregory PeckThe first motion picture is the 1949 classic TWELVE O’CLOCK HIGH starring Gregory Peck as a US Army Air Corp Brigadier General reluctantly is given command of a bomber group based in England during World War II.

When the movie begins the 918th Bomb Group has suffered terrible losses and the commander seems to do nothing to get the bomber groups confidence back. When all seems lost, the upper echelon wants change and that change has to happen now. The war cannot wait for the current commander to get his “mojo” back.

In comes the reluctant Brigadier General Frank Savage played by Gregory Peck. He starts by restoring law and order in an otherwise near chaotic and malaise infested Bomb Group. Savage starts by doing what he must do to restore order on the ground before even considering any changes in the air.

There is resistance to the changes. No one likes his “back to fundamentals approach”. Sound familiar? However, with threats from the pilots and crew of quitting or transferring, the General does not back down. Ultimately, the changes start to make sense for the 918th Bomber group and they start to gel. The pilots, crew, and men of the Bomb Group start to regain their confidence.

While on actual bombing missions, Brigadier General Frank Savage is up there with the group. He is leading them from the front on numerous missions. Then he begins rotating flight commanders among all the pilots in his command.

Throughout the motion picture permeates the sense of battle fatigue, combat stress, post traumatic disorder, and just plain old “bad luck” as to why things are happening the way they are.

War is never easy. When motion pictures stopped glamorizing war (such as those John Wayne type movies) then things could really be told. I understand some liberties have to be take to dumb down war, men in war and the things that happen in war for the general public to consume but the message of leadership also permeates throughout Twelve O’Clock High.

The message is simple. The mission comes first. In this case, the mission is to win the war. The men come second. Use the men as best as they can be used to support the mission which will win the war. The mission, the men and women that perform the mission and the price the men, women and their machines pay to fight in a war is one thing that every leader must remember whether fighting a war in some far off land or the battle is in the accounting department. The mission is and always will be of the most highest importance by their leader or leaders. Get everyone focused on the mission. Hold them accountable to that mission and the rest will take care of itself just like General Frank Savage did in Twelve O’Clock High.

Twelve O’Clock High is currently available for streaming on NETFLIX and on AMAZON dot com.

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