TUESDAY JANUARY 31, 2017 – Always remember, never ever forget you complete yourself. Remember that movie Jerry Maguire? I love that movie. I do. I really truly do. It is it’s one of those few romantic comedy that’s also a guy movie because its got sports in it and that’s a good thing. Remember when he tells what’s-her-name I don’t remember the character’s name but he tells her that she completes him. You know you complete me. Well you know that’s nonsense. If you are looking for validation
and some love from a source of outside of ourselves, get a dog.
Somebody once said that if you need validation get a dog and not well that’s true. Then again you know you don’t need anyone to validate you. You don’t need anyone to complete you if you don’t already complete yourself. What makes you think you are going to be able to be complete by somebody else. That’s just setting yourself up for failure.
Sure, you go well together. Sure you mentally belong together because you feel it in your mind that you mutually accepted each other but do you really need someone else to complete you?
It is not the way it works.
You have got to complete yourself, you have got to be the whole person. You have got to set yourself up as one individual and then you’ll find someone else to complement you, to be happy with you not to make you happy but to be happy with you.
Again, you know you don’t find it in a relationship unless you have it in yourself. It is how you feel about yourself that is a direct reflection of the relationships are going to have.
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Thank you,
David Guerra