Day 88 of 100 Days of 100 Ways To Rule Your World

USE YOUR EYES FOR MORE THAN JUST LOOKING

Learn to use your eyes for more than just looking at people.

When you are communicating with people, you have to ensure that you are using the full power of your eyes. We are told to make constant eye contact. If you deviate, in maintaining eye contact, because you will be viewed as someone who is self-conscious, weak, inferior, or uncertain? Now who wants to be thought of as weak or uncertain? CERTAINLY, NOT YOU!

The best way to counter that is to CONSCIOUSLY WORK at looking people right in the eye when you talk to them. Don’t break eye contact but DON’T CREEP PEOPLE OUT either. Pick one eye and just look at them.

Master The “I Can See Your Soul” Stare.

You know that look that very few people give you where they can almost see your soul. That’s something that anyone can master. PRACTICE until you no longer get it wrong in front of the mirror. Just keep staring into the reflection of your eyes and eventually you will master that soul deep stare.

No matter what and no matter how tempted (Gents) make an HONEST EFFORT to look the person, you are having a conversation with, in the eyes. It will go a long way to showing that you are GENUINELY INTERESTED in the other individual and REALLY CARE about what they have to say to you.

Thank you,
David Guerra
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